A non-governmental organisation (NGO), Safenest, on Monday decried the high rate of domestic violence in Nigeria, linking it to abuse
of harmful substances by spouses.
The Executive Director of the group, Mrs. Oluchukwu
Chukwuenyem, stated this during a one-day seminar by the group on fostering
better relationship among couples for proper child upbringing and better
society.
Chukwuenyem said within the one year that the group
came into existence, it has witnessed several cases of violence among couples
to the level that it has become a regular happening in the society.
She linked the high rate of domestic violence to
abuse of hard drug, alcohol and other illicit substances, which arises as a
result of economic factor, stress, misunderstanding among several others.
According to her, "The rate of domestic
violence in our society today is very high. Within the short period this organisation
has been in existence, we have discovered that many families collapse due to
minor and flimsy issues which ordinarily should not lead to family disunity if
proper understanding is applied.
"The rate at which couple divorce in our
society is alarming, and it is the children who suffer most in the situation
because proper parental care, guidance and training would never be there again.
"Domestic violence in Igbo land is a problem
as in many parts of
Nigeria. There is a deep cultural belief in Igbo
land that it is socially acceptable to hit a woman to discipline her. This
victimisation affects people at all levels of
economic status. However, indications of lower socioeconomic status such as unemployment,
low income and abuse of illicit drugs have shown to be risk factors for higher
levels of domestic violence in our society."
She said domestic violence was not only peculiar to
women, but that cases abound where wives have abused their husbands, saying
such cases have gone unreported because of the shame that goes with it.
The activist stated that most couples who have had
issues, most of whom were at the event, have been rehabilitated by the group
and once more, set on the path of marital bliss.
She commended the National Drug Law Enforcement
Agency (NDLEA) for its fight against drug abuse in the state, saying the fight
has helped to keep most marriages steady.
Highlight of the event was a contest between couples,
which saw four of them winning gift items and cash rewards.
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